[もてあつかう, moteatsukau](v5u, vt) (1) (arch) to take care of; (2) (arch) (See 持て余す) to be too much for one; to find unmanageable; to be beyond one's control; to not know what to do with[Add to Longdo]
[あぐねる, aguneru](v1) (uk) to tire of; to lose interest in; to be too much for one; to find unmanageable; to be beyond one's control; to not know what to do with[Add to Longdo]